Trip to Asheville, North Carolina

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Asheville, North Carolina will always be one of my favorite places to visit. It’s a laid back atmosphere with lots to do. We always have a good time and this trip was no exception. We spent most of Saturday downtown. Here are a few pictures from our visit. My dresses are both from Queen Styles Boutique. The burgundy dress is on sale right now!

Floral DressFloral DressBabydoll dress

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How to: Effortlessly Mix Prints

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Mixing prints is one of the best ways to show your personal style. Mix prints as much or little as you like. You can go with larger prints or smaller ones. You can choose prints that are the same color or different colors. Mixing prints should be fun! I chose to mix camouflage and leopard print below. Here are a few tips when you’re mixing prints:

1. Keep the size of the print in mind- If you feel overwhelmed with mixing prints, consider the size of the prints. Smaller prints are easier to work with.

2. Consider the distance of the prints- Wearing a printed hat and printed shoes creates space between the prints and makes them less overwhelming.

3. Keep the colors in mind- When I’m wearing prints I try to tie my outfit together with neutral colors. For example: if you’re wearing prints that are very colorful, a few neutrals that will bring the look together are jeans, black pants, a white shirt or brown shoes.

Check out my example below:

Infinity scarf

Cute long sleeved top

Jacket- Queen Styles Boutique

Pink top- Queen Styles Boutique

Scarf- Queen Styles Boutique

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What Does Living Boldly Mean?

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What’s living boldly mean? I used to think it was impossible to live boldly. Especially when our world continuously sends messages on how we should live, dress, act, and talk. Then I remembered, we’re not of this world. You see, God calls us to be in this world but not of it. What does that mean? It means that we’re not supposed to fit in. It means that we’re different. Fitting in won’t work because we were created to stand out. Living boldly to me means aligning all of my actions with who God created me to be.

Burgundy dress

Winter Fashion Babydoll dress

Outfit details:

Dress- Queen Styles Boutique

Jacket- New York & Company

Hat-Forever 21

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Mommy Update

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These past six months have been the most interesting and challenging fun I’ve ever had! Being a mother brings feelings of love, worry, fatigue, and excitement. I’ve learned a few lessons along the way:

1. Surround Yourself with Positive People.

The people we surround ourselves with, truly impacts our internal energy. I choose to surround myself with people who encourage, lift me up, and offer me good advice. As a new mom(and really as a person) I don’t need negative energy around me.

2. Give Yourself Grace

I’ve gotten better at extending grace to other people but you know what I haven’t really done? Extended it to myself. There’s no step by step guide to motherhood. Yes, there’s knowledge and doctors that help you along the way but there’s no instruction manual. I’ve had to extend grace to myself so many times.

3. Remember You are a Person Outside of Being a Mom.

You still need to developed a person outside of being a mother. I’ve challenged myself to new skills and improve skills to better myself as a person. Why? Because being a mother is part of who I am. It’s a huge part but still a part of me. It important to still evolve as a person.

Here’s a photo of me and our baby boy.

Winter Preview Fashion

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I’ve been busy with Luke and Queen Styles Boutique! This year’s pop-up shops are different. I need to stop and pump for Luke. Which means I need coverage while I’m away. I’m grateful to have great friends and family who are helping me during this new season. Not to mention a husband who delights in encouraging me.

Here are a few looks from this month. All looks have pieces from Queen Styles

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Asheville Trip

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Asheville, North Carolina is one of my favorite places to visit. When I’m there, it always reminds me to slow down. The pace is just so relaxing. Life can be hectic at times and if we’re not careful, we can get caught up in the busyness of it all and miss out on the simple moments. It doesn’t hurt that the scenery is so beautiful. Here are a few pictures of my trip.

This sweater dress is from Queen Styles Boutique

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Versatile Black Floral Shorts

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Our first date night since baby Luke was great. Questions like: “was he thinking about us?” and “what was he doing?” crossed my mind. Granted, he was with my mother so there wasn’t a need to worry but I had never been away from him. My husband and I went to one of our favorite burger spots and listened to live music. It was a short outing but needed! If you’re a new mom or know new parents I highly suggest investing in date night or offering to watch their little one so they can enjoy a night out.

It’s close to fall but the humid Carolina summer isn’t showing signs of letting up. I wanted to be very comfortable but of course fashionable. I love these black shorts from Queen Styles Boutique. They’re perfect for all seasons. During the warm month I can wear them with just about any style shirt for a cute look and I can’t wait to pair them with a pair of tights when the weather cools down. For date night, I paired them with a white t-shirt and sandals.

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Simple Tips for Expectant Mothers

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Baby Luke is almost 4 weeks old and we are mesmerized by just about everything he does. Of course I don’t know everything, but I thought I would write a post for my mommas who are getting ready to welcome their little one. Most likely, you won’t find these tips in online articles because they’re very random but they’ve helped me a lot. Here they are in no particular order.

1. You Need to Heal- I don’t know why our society has become so desensitized to women giving birth. It’s almost as if people expect women to give birth and bounce back to normal during the same week. Don’t fall for it. Your body spent nine months nourishing a baby and then giving birth to it! Give yourself grace and time to heal. Take it easy. Don’t feel pressured into playing the role of superwoman. It’s been almost four weeks and I can honestly say that I don’t feel 100% myself yet and I’m absolutely okay with that. Giving birth is a big deal, so don’t downplay your recovery.

2. Be Prepared for Mommy Shaming- I wish I could tell you that everyone will support every decision you make regarding your little one but that’s not always the case. Mommy shaming happens. The sooner you accept this, the easier it is to deal with. Know that other’s opinions on your decisions don’t reflect whether you are a good parent or not. There’s a good chance that you’ve done a lot of research and have carefully thought about the decisions you’ve made, trust your instinct. Think about how you want to deal with it in advance. That way, you’re ready and prepared when it happens to you.

3. Make Visitor Guidelines Before Your Little One Arrives- This includes visitors at the hospital and at home. My husband and I spent months on these guidelines. We wanted to make sure that Luke was a priority and I had the support I needed to heal. At the hospital, we wanted a very intimate setting. When we got home with Luke we didn’t want to be overwhelmed with visitors. After we made our guidelines, we let our families know in advance. Let people know what your guidelines are ahead of time so that everyone is on the same page and knows what to expect. Think about how long you want visits to be. Do you want visits to only be during the weekend? Do visits need to be scheduled with your partner or with you?

4. Stock Up!- Stock up on supplies…not just food. We purchased hygiene and house products before Luke got here. The last thing you will want to do is think about how you don’t have anymore paper towels in the house or have the realization that you’re out of deodorant. The goal is to be prepared for what you can control. You can control having a month’s supply of body wash. You can’t control sleeping in shifts of 3 hours with your newborn. Focus on what you can control.

5. Accept Help- We took all of the help that was offered. My mom is a teacher so she had a few weeks off before the new school year started. She provided meals, did laundry, washed dishes, let me nap when I needed to and watched Luke while we had a quick date night. We had friends and family help with extra meals too! This help was invaluable and I encourage you to take up any help that’s offered. When help is offered, don’t be shy. Tell people what they can do. It really does take a village to raise and welcome a child.

6. Get Your Postpartum Wardrobe Ready- You’ll need to be as comfortable as possible when you get home. I purchased sweatpants, leggings, nursing tops, fuzzy socks, and got my hair braided before Luke’s arrival. Some women feel comfortable in nightgowns, if that’s you purchase them ahead of time. If you prefer leggings or sweatpants, purchase them ahead of time. The key is to make sure you’re prepared for recovery before you get home. No you’re not about to walk the runway but I can tell you that putting on decent activewear can make you feel refreshed.

7. Decide in Advance What Your “Me Time” Looks Like- It’s so important to have “me time” especially as a mother. Maybe your “me time” is ten minutes, or an hour but you need “me time”. Some days I have ten minutes and some days I have longer. Before Luke got here I purchased some books and magazines I knew I would like to read. I’ll be honest and say I’ve read maybe twenty pages of a book since he got here but it’s something I look forward to. My husband and I made the decision that we aren’t taking Luke out in public until he’s had the necessary shots. So I knew I had to be intentional with my “me time”. Reading helps a lot or sometimes I go to Target while my husband is with Luke. After my doctor clears me, I’m looking forward to taking some fitness classes for my “me time” and I can’t wait!

8. You’ve Got This- I was home with Luke and trying to figure out something. I asked my mom her opinion and she said “it’s your call momma.” I can’t tell you what those words meant. You have an instinct. Trust in. Trust that your instinct will lead you to make the right decisions about your child. Don’t fall into the trap that you need to look a certain way or act a certain way as a new mother. Be confident that you’re doing the best you can as a new mother. You’ve got this!

Like I said, we’re almost at the four week mark so I don’t know everything. These are just a few tips that helped me. Here’s a picture of me and baby Luke after delivery.

How to: Shop a Summer Sale

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It’s that time of year for: Summer Sale’s. Stores are getting ready for their fall inventory and one of the ways to do that is to have a sale. When you’re about to shop a Summer Sale, do your research. Are all items on sale? Is the sale happening in waves or all at once? Research the discounts. Do you see the term “up to” or do you have to spend a certain amount to qualify for a discount? The answers to these questions can make a huge difference in the amount of money you spend. Queen Styles Boutique is having a Summer Sale right now. Here’s what you can expect: 25% off at checkout….on everything. That’s right, everything. Here are a few of their pieces:

This Pink Ruffled Dress

Curvy Queens Off-the-Shoulder Top

Champagne Metallic Skirt

Summer Sale’s can be fun so enjoy them!

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